include wolfssl/options.h crypto lib config
after selecting crypto lib to use
wolfSSL does not prefix its defines with a wolfSSL-specific namespace
(so we would like to avoid unnecessarily polluting preproc namespace)
This commit further isolates wolfSSL after split from mod_openssl.
Cleans up some preprocessor logic that was put in place when using
the wolfSSL compatibility layer for openssl, before creating a
dedicated mod_wolfssl.